From Ibn ' Umar r. a: the Prophet said, "the world is fun. The best of pleasure is a teaser for women. " [1410] Sahih Muslim
Here is the story of a husband who is so faithful to the wife so she loved,
The wedding has been running four (4) years, but married couples was not blessed with a child also. Left-right and start whispering: "why haven't had a son also, Yes, the problem on who ya? Her husband or his wife huh? ". From whispering, eventually became noisy.
Unbeknownst to anyone, the husband and wife went to a doctor for consultation, and do pemeriksaaan. The lab results said that his wife was a woman who was infertile, while the husband was no problem whatsoever and no hope for the wife to heal in the sense of no chance for her to get pregnant and have a child. See results like that, the husband pronounces: inna lillahi wa inna ilaihi raji'un, then dial with speech: thank God.
The husband alone entered the room carrying a doctor with lab results and not tell his wife and let his wife waits in the waiting room of women separate from men. The husband said to the doctor: "I am going to call my wife to enter a room, but, please, the next time you explain to my wife that the problem exists in me, while he's no problem anything. Cash only the doctor refused and was astonished.
But the husband continues to force the doctor, the doctor finally agreed to tell his wife that the problem is not the coming of the descendants exists on the husband and not exist at his wife. The husband call his wife, who had long been waiting for him, and looking at her face sorrow and gloom. Then together with his wife he entered the space doctor. Then the doctor opened the envelope, and then read the lab results and mentelaahnya, and then he said: "... Oooh, you – o fulan-barren, while your wife was no problem, and there is no hope for you to heal. To hear the announcement of the doctor, the husband said: inna lillahi wa inna ilaihi raji'un, and look at the look on his face the face of someone who surrenders to Al-qada and qadar Allah SWT.
How great is the hearts of the husband, the example illustrates its nature as a Hadith:
From Abu Hurairah r. a: the Prophet said, "the most perfect believer in faith is the most considerate was the best, and you guys are the best on his wife." [1162] Hasan Sahih. Al-Tirmidhi
Then married couples was returned home, and slowly but surely, tersebarlah news about the secret to his neighbors, relatives and relatives. Five (5) years have passed from that event and a pair of husband and wife be patient, until the end came seconds-seconds which is very stressful, where his wife says to her husband: "o fulan, I've been patient for nine (9) years, I hold-hold to be patient and do not ask for divorce this from you, and for all the people saying how good his shalihah and his wife was the faithful continue to accompany her husband for nine years but she knew that from her husband, he will not obtain a descent ".
However, now it feels like I've not been able to be patient again, I want to be thou my divorce soon, so I can get married with another man and had a descent from him, so I get to see my kids, menimangnya and nourishes. Hear the emotion of his wife that culminated, the husband said: "my wife, this ordeal of Almighty God, we must be patient, we must ... must ... and must ...". In short, for his wife, her husband and even lectured in his presence. She finally said, "OK, I will hold kesabaranku another year, remember, only one year, not more." Her husband agreed, and in him, filled with great hope, may Allah SWT give the best way out for both of them.
The husband never angry or hit his wife, because like the Hadith below:
From Muawiya Al-Qusyairi r. a.: "I came to the Messenger of Allah, I asked, ' what Advice would you say (we should do) against our wives? ' The Prophet said, "give them to eat of what-what are you eating, and give them clothes from what you guys use. Do not hit them and don't also chided them ... " [2144] Sahih Abu Daud
From Aisha r. ha, he said: "the Prophet never struck one of the aides he nor wives and He never hit anything with his hands." [1627] Sahih Ibn Maajah
A few days later, she suddenly fell ill, and the results of the lab said that his wife suffered kidney failure. Hearing the description, the fall of the wife, and the psychological start culminated his emotions. She said to her husband: "this is all because of you, as long as this I hold kesabaranku, and be right now I like this, why don't you immediately during my divorce, I do you want to have children, I want to memomong and menimang baby, I was right ... my right ...". His wife else bad rest in hospital.
At the critical juncture that, all of a sudden her husband said: "I'm sorry, I have the task of getting out of the country, and I hope we wish thee fine". " Haah, go? ". Says the wife. " Yes, I will go because the task and all looking for a kidney donor, may be ". Said the husband. A day before the operation, the donors came to where a fold of his wife.
Then it was agreed that tomorrow will be made of the installation operation kidney donors. That time she reminded her husband that went away, he said to himself: "what an Husband he was, his wife's surgery, instead he eh go leave me a surgical operation in space sprawl". Operation succeeded very well. After one weekend, her husband came, and saw on his face signs people are exhausted. Please be aware that the donors that no other person except the husband himself. Yes, her husband has a kidney to grant his wife, unbeknownst to his wife, neighbors and anyone other than the doctor ordered in order to close the secret meeting.
So great love he to his wife, as the Hadith are explained:
From Ibn Abbas: the Prophet a r. said, "the best of you is the most good to his wife, and I (Prophet Muhammad) are the most pleasant of you to my wife." [1621] Sahih Ibn Maajah
And subhanallah ... After nine (9) months of the operation, his wife gave birth to a son. Then cheer up the husband and wife, a great family and the neighbors. The atmosphere of the household returned to normal, and the husband has completed a study of the S2 and S3 in a Faculty of Shari'ah and has worked as a clerk in a court in Jeddah. He also has completed memorizing the Qur'an and get the need with a history of Hafs, from ' Asim. One day, the husband is no task Office far away, and he forgot to keep a diary of the table, a diary that she hide.
And by accident, his wife get the diary, membuka-bukanya and read it. Almost as soon as he knocked down unconscious while discovering secrets about himself and his household. She bawl. After a bit he'll call reda, her husband, and cry sejadi-would it be, he repeatedly repeats apology from her husband. The husband can only reply to a voice calls his wife by crying anyway.
And after such events, for three months, she did not dare to stare at her husband's face. If there is a necessity, he talked to subdue his face, no power to look at him at all.
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