This is an event 10 years ago.
The next days walking. We have a kid, I worked as a businessman and trying to generate more money. When the company's assets increase, the affection between me and my wife like began to decline.
My wife, an employee of the Government. Every morning we went along and came home almost at the same time. Our children are educated in a boarding school. Our married life look very happy, but quiet life seems more easily affected by changes that are unexpected.
Then Jane came into my life.
Today was a sunny day. I stand on the balcony. Jane hugged me from behind. Once again my heart like evening in her love. This apartment I bought for him. Then Jane says, "you are a clever man lured women." His words were suddenly reminded me on my wife. When we were newly married, my wife said "men like you, when successful, will captivate many women." Thinking about this, I'm being indecisive. I know, I have cheated on my wife.
I menyampingkan Jane's hand and said, "you need to select some furniture, ok? I have nothing to do in the company. " She looks unhappy, because I have promised will accompany him look around the furniture. For a moment, the mind to divorce become increasingly clear although previously seemed impossible. However, it will be hard to put it on my wife. No matter as soft as anything I say it, he'll be very hurt. To be honest, she is a good wife. Every night, he's always busy preparing dinner. I sat in front of the television. Dinner will be available shortly. Then we watched TV together. This was formerly the entertainment for me.
One day I asked my wife jokingly, "If for instance we get divorced, what would you do?" She looked at me a moment without saying anything. It seems he was a believer that divorce would not come to him. I can't imagine how her reaction when she found out later that I'm serious about this.
When my wife came to the kantorku, Jane pegi directly out. Almost all employees see my wife with a sympathetic glance and tried to hide what was going on when talking to her. My wife, like getting a little hint. He smiled gently to his subordinates-bawahanku. But I see there's a wound feelings in his eyes.
Once again, Jane said to me, "it's a shame, divorce her, ok? Then we'll live together. " I nodded. I know I can not doubt.
When I got home that night, my wife was preparing dinner. I menggemgam his hand and said, "I want to talk about." She then sat down and ate in silence Again, I saw the wound feeling from her eyes.
All of a sudden I could not open my mouth. But I must still say this on my wife. I want to get divorced. I started talks with ease.
He is not bothered with such kata-kataku, instead asked gently, "why?"
I'm avoiding the question. This made him angry. He throws the chopsticks and shouted at me, "you're not a man!" That night, we are not talking at each other. She cries. I know, he wants to find out what is going on in our marriage. But I find it hard to give it a satisfying answer, that my heart had chosen Jane. I don't love him anymore. I'm just for him an!
With feelings of guilt, I made the divorce agreement stating that my wife could have our House, our car and 30% of the assets of perusahaanku.
He glanced at the letter and then merobek-robeknya. The woman who has spent 10 years of his life with me had become a stranger to me. I am sorry for having wasted your time, resources and energy but I cannot retract what I've said because I so love Jane. Finally my wife cried out loud in front of me, which I think may have been before. To me, wept is a kind of release. Thoughts about divorce which has met me for a couple of weeks later, now looks firmly and clearly.
The next day, I came home late and saw my wife write something at the dinner table. I didn't eat dinner, but straight to bed and fall asleep quickly because it has been a long day along with Jane.
When I woke up, my wife was still there, in writing. I'm not mempedulikannya and go right back to sleep.
In the morning, he handed over the terms of his divorce: he didn't want anything from me, just want attention for a month before the divorce. He asked in a month that we should both be trying to live sebiasa as possible. The reason is simple: our Children are facing trials in a month, and he does not want to mess up our children with our divorce.
I agree with his request. But he asked for another one, she told me to meingat how to menggendongnya when I took her to the bridal suite, on our wedding day.
He asked her for 1 month every day, I menggendongnya out of our rooms, to the front door every morning. I thought he was crazy. I accepted his request which is weird because it just wants to make the last days of togetherness we are more easily accepted by him.
I tell Jane about the terms of a divorce from my wife. He laughed out loud and think that it is redundant. "Any Trick he used, he must still confront the divorce!", says Jane, with a tone of contempt.
My wife and I have long been doing no physical contact since the desire to divorce began to think unthinkable. So, when I menggendongnya on the first day, we both looked awkward. Our son applause behind us. She said, "Papa cradling mama!" Her words made me feel hurt. From the room to the living room, then to the front door, I walked as far as 10 meters, with her dipelukanku. He closes his eyes and whispered to me, "don't tell our children about divorce." I nodded, feeling sad. I drop him off at the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I own a car ride to the Office.
The second day, we were both easier to act. He was leaning on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her clothes. It struck me, been a long time I did not truly take notice of this woman. I realize she's not young anymore, there are fine lines on her face, her hair is greying. Our marriage has made it difficult. For a moment I was amazed, what have I done to her.
The fourth day, when I'm menggendongnya, I felt a sense of immediacy as back again. This is a woman who has already given 10 years of his life to me.
The fifth and sixth days, I realized a sense of closeness we grew. I'm not saying at Jane. As time goes by the more easily menggendongnya. Maybe because I'm diligently working out makes me stronger.
One morning, my wife is currently choosing the clothes she wants to wear. He tried a number of clothing but did not find any that fit. Then he heaved a breath, "my outfit all so big." Suddenly it struck me that he has become very thin. This is the reason I can menggendongnya easily.
Suddenly I was devastated. He has harbored the pain and bitterness in her heart. Involuntarily I touch his head.
Our son came along and said, "Pa, it's about time cradling mama out." For our children, seeing his father had cradling his mother out had become a significance in his life. My wife waving at my son for over and hugged him tightly. I shifted my face because I'm going to change my mind at the last moment. Then I took the my wife, walking from the room, to the living room to the front door. Hand looped around my neck gently. I menggendongnya with closely, such as when the day of our wedding.
But a light weight made me sad. On the last day, when I menggendongnya, difficult for me to move. Our son has been going to school. I menggendongnya with closely and said, "I did not notice if we lack of closeness."
I went to the Office, out of the car without locking the door. I am afraid, any delay will change my mind. I'm way over, Jane opened the door and I said to him, "sorry, Jane, I don't want a divorce."
He looked at me, with a surprisingly touching the forehead. "You fever?", he asked. I got rid of her hand from my head. "Sorry, Jane, I said, I'm not going to divorce." Life pernikahanku during boring probably because I and my wife did not assess all the details of our lives, not because we don't love each other. Now I realize, since I menggendongnya to my house on the day of our wedding, I have to keep menggendongnya until death separates us.
Jane like suddenly struck me. She menamparku loudly then slammed the door and ran away while crying. I came down and went out.
At the flower shop, when I drive home, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The seller asked me what I wanted to write on cards. I smiled and wrote, I will menggendongmu every morning until death separates us.
That afternoon, I got to the House, with the flowers in my hand, a smile on my face, I ran up to the room, only to find my wife lying on the bed – died. My wife has been fighting cancer for months and I was too busy with Jane to not noticing it. He knows that he will soon die, and he wants to menyelamatku from any negative reaction from our children, if we are so divorced. — At least, in the eyes of our children — I was a loving husband.
The small things in your life is the most important in a relationship. Not a big house, cars, property or money in the bank. All of this support could not give happiness but happiness itself. So, just find the time to be a friend to pasanganmu, and do the little things together to build the immediacy of it. Have a wedding that earnest and happy.
If you don't share it, will not happen anything you. If share, maybe you save a marriage. The number of failures in life because people don't realize how close they were with success when they've given up.
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